The Holidays Have Arrived and I’m Scared
The holidays have arrived and I’m scared. I hope the title of this got your attention. That is my intent of course. But, it’s not just the title of this little article. It is the truth. What am I afraid of? I’m afraid that many of my new friends will give themselves license to return to their OLD way of life. It’s Thanksgiving, shouldn’t I indulge? Yes you should. But, you should also REMEMBER. Remember how much hard work you have put in. Hard, hard work. Many of you have worked harder in the past 6 months than you have in your entire lives. So, I ask again, should I indulge? Again, yes BUT… we need limits. Primarily what I want to share with you is: HOW DO I STAY ON TRACK DURING THE HOLIDAYS? Before I give you some easy to apply tips about staying on track, let me set this up for you some. One of the things that I have guarded against over the years is to not ostracize myself because of how I eat. Let me be really clear, open and honest. I have cheat meals. I think it’s mentally healthy. And more to my point here, I think it’s the correct thing to do SOCIALLY. We live in a culture that has made mealtime, social time. Wether it’s right or wrong, this is the age that we live in. We associate good times and friends with food and drink. In my mother’s house, on Thanksgiving day, she expects me to eat some of nearly everything that she has spent two days preparing. And I will comply. It will make me need a nap but, I’ll happily and guilt free eat everything that my dear mother has made. I encourage you to do the same. But, we have to do so knowing that we have to get back on track right away. Here is where TIP #1 comes in: Plan how many cheat meals will take place over the Thanksgiving holidays and DO NOT vary from that plan. If you don’t have family close enough to visit, don’t like them or you just like to eat alone, you have an advantage here. You get to control what and where you will eat for your holiday meal. However, if you are like my family, we have MULTIPLE places that we are EXPECTED to be on Thanksgiving. So, if you already know when, where and how many of these feasts you have to attend, plan that many cheat meals and be done with it. In our case, we will go to my parent’s house and two days later, Windi’s parent’s house. That would be two cheat meals plus another cheat meal of leftovers. DONE. OVER. Back to normal. I recommend you do something similar to this. But, why? I’m glad you asked. The why is because, unless you have been eating a natural food diet (Paleo, etc.) for a year or two, you are liable to revert back…